The Unloved

Samantha Morton Interview

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Samantha Morton on the set of The Unloved

Monday 11 May 2009

Director Samantha Morton reveals her motivations for making The Unloved and touches on the aspects of her childhood that are reflected in the film.

Q: Can you tell us about the origins of the project?

A: When I was 16-years-old and attending The Television Workshop in Nottingham, Ian Smith, who runs the workshop asked us as a drama group if we had anything we felt passionate about and wanted to turn into a piece of theatre. I stuck my hand up and said that I wanted to make a play about my situation and where I lived (in a residential children's home). So we quickly started to openly devise a play.

At the same time I read a newspaper article called The Unloved which inspired the play's title and much later this film's title. It was an investigative piece about a group of young prostitutes in Nottingham and one of the young girls they wrote about seemed very close to someone I had lived with. I told the drama group about this and we started to create characters loosely around the people I had encountered in children's homes.

I got totally carried away and started bossing everyone around immediately! I wrote a song, started writing and directing scenes and we performed the play over a couple of nights. It was like a very different but early version of the film.

The other thing that made me want to direct this story was that I used to watch TV programmes about being in care and think about the characters I knew and none of the TV depictions felt very real to me. The closest that came to it was films like Kes or Ladybird Ladybird that showed the aspect of loneliness, of just being forgotten as a child or fighting a bureaucratic system. It started making me think about all the characters I had come across in a very filmic way and maybe that was my way of starting to come away from the situation.

Q: Why did you want to make it for television?

A: When I was young, the only way I could see films, other than naughtily sneaking into the ABC Cinema in Nottingham to watch things I couldn't afford to pay to see, was on the television. I think a lot of kids are in a similar situation now and can't afford to go to the cinema so it seemed better to me to have it broadcast first. We were really lucky that Channel 4 were up for it.

Q: Which directors influenced you and the way you worked behind the camera?

A: To be honest I am so totally immersed in a character when I am acting that I didn't draw directly on any one director but what influenced me more than anything was what not to do. I have worked with directors who were scared of actors and with a film like The Unloved with children it was very important that the young actors had 100% of me and we were very prepared.

Q: Which films inspired you?

A: Films like The American Friend or The Man without a Past inspired me as they had such a sense of space and time and they don't force the story too hard. I think now we are used to very fast editing and narrative-packed stories which can be brilliant but in a story about a young girl who is bordering on autistic I felt that I didn't want it to feel like an adult script or direction had been imposed to forcefully - it needed to be more natural and believable than that.

Q: As a very experienced actress how did you prepare and work with newcomers and such young lead?

A: I did two weeks of workshops with everyone and with Molly Windsor (Lucy) I spent a lot of time with her on my own so she could get comfortable with both me and the camera. But you quickly realise every actor needs something different on set. Tom Hooper, who I worked with on Longford, was inspiring as he was an incredibly kind director. He would walk on set and very quickly gauge what everyone, from cast to crew, needed from him. It is a real art, like being a good mediator or politician. So during the shoot I often thought about how Tom Hooper took care of me when I was playing the very tough role of Myra Hindley. But Molly is a really talented actress and it astounded me how at 11-years-old she could offer so much range to the part.

Q: You put a lot of thought into the decision to make the film but was it harder than you imagined being on set watching a child in those scenes?

A: It was horrible to watch at times. To be honest sometimes I know why I have made the film and other days I don't. I have worked very hard on being aware of my childhood but moving forward and not letting it bring me down emotionally. That is a hard thing. Especially when you have children of your own and you remember what happened to you at that age and what you were going through - at 15-months or nine-years-old. But then I look at artists and filmmakers I admire and basically I believe that film should always be personal - when I first read that in The Free Cinema Manifesto, it really got me thinking. If you are ever going to say anything through art it can't be anything but personal. So I wanted to make a film about something I knew about and had really felt.

Q: Why did you set the film now and not when you were growing up?

A: Originally I wanted to set the film in 1989 as that was when major changes took place and the Children's Act was reformed and the two main unions were striking. But I felt that was too backwards looking and I wanted to make it about the now. I don't think things have moved on and I didn't want audiences to write it off as a historical piece. I had a sense of urgency about making it and kept saying to my partner and friends 'I have to make this film. I feel like time is running out.' So when the window came I jumped through it.

Q: What have you taken from making the film?

A: I have loved making this film artistically in a way that is so profound I don't have the words for it. Yet making a film that is so personal means you can not let go of one part of it because you care so deeply about it being right and that makes you very vulnerable. This film started last March and the intensity of the schedule means that I would have to think hard about directing again - it is not a job that is kind to women with children. As an actress you have more control over your time. Directing this has given me an even greater respect and care for directors and I had a lot already. But ultimately I feel like the cat that got the cream because I have been able to make the film I desperately wanted to make.

Q: Did you always want to set the film in Nottingham?

A: Originally I felt it had to be Nottingham but then I started spending time in other cities like Newcastle, Glasgow and around London and I realised that this child's story could belong to any city, and even in America. But it came back to making a film about the world you know and every location (apart from Crop Row) in The Unloved is based on a personal memory. We didn't need a location scout as I knew every road, bus stop and shopping centre and had sat on that bank. It was all from my childhood.

Q: How much of you is there in the character of Lucy?

A: In fact I am massively a part of both the characters of Lauren and Lucy but also there is a bit of me in Karl (the residential care home worker). I think when something is based in such a personal part of your life you do end up infusing lots of the characters with elements of your personality. Tony Grisoni and I talked about this a lot and he helped me find the balance between me, Lucy and Lauren. It was a relief that by the time we were shooting on set it didn't feel like my story because I had been able to take a step back.

Q: What do you want audiences to take from the film?

A: Firstly, I want audiences to feel sympathy for children in care. Any child can end up in the care system - really anybody - you just don't know what is round the corner. When you are tiny and a child you are not in control and you don't have any say. It is all down to parents, police, social workers and as a child you have very few rights. Secondly I hope people question what rights children have. The difficulty for governments around the world is that if you restore the rights of the child you take away the rights of the adult. It is very messed up when you really look in detail at our human rights system and I hope it changes.

Q: Who do you want to watch the film?

A: I really hope I get two audiences for the film: the movers and shakers in society, the people who can sign cheques, have influence and make things happen and then the other part of me wants kids who normally watch EastEnders to find it on television and see something that feels a bit different and might be more art house than they would normally go for but that surprises and hopefully moves them.

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  1. Could somebody tell me who scored/composed the music for this drama?
    Posted by Joel on 05/08/2009 17:44:12
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  2. I wish I had a huge brightly lit arrow pointing at my house so all the children who are in trouble could find me and be assured of a warm welcome and lots of love. I'm going to become a foster carer in a few months so at least 4 children will be able to be safe, I wish I could take more. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Posted by Linda Mother Hen on 28/05/2009 20:45:52
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  3. This drama was brilliant. It really touched my heart. The actors were so realistic. Well done Samantha & Channel 4
    Posted by Tracy on 28/05/2009 17:07:49
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  4. The unloved opened my eyes on so many levels. The suffering of these children is almost unberable and thankfully it is being changed. When i was growing up i lived for a long time with my grandparents and when one died i had to go back home, so i can empathise with that unloved feeling that lucy also has, it's only through counselling that i can now accept why my parents didn't want me and i have forgiven them. During the film i wanted to reach into the TV and take her away from everything and just protect her from a world that at times is just not nice. The drama was beautifully filmed and Samantha Morton has done amazingly. Hopefully she will bring more awareness to help children who are often forgotton about and who arn't even put into care. All round perfect and moving piece of work xxx
    Posted by Snaily on 27/05/2009 21:40:17
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  5. I thank Samantha for directing such a powerful and moving drama. I had a difficult childhood and for a long time I wished that I had been taken into care. I used to try to get myself into trouble with the police just so that someone would take me away.It never worked because I think people could see that I was a 'nice girl really'. I was permanently frightened at home. I am glad this film has been made because it might help people to realise just how many children need help. If I had been taken away from my home and cared for by decent people I am sure I would be in better health now and have enough confidence to achieve things in life. I hope this film made more people wiling to adopt children. I also hope it will mean that teachers, police officers etc. are better trained in the future to spot the signs of abuse and deal with it more effectively. The Baby P case is just one extreme example. There are hundreds of thousands of people who suffer poor physical and mental health, poverty etc. just because of how terribly they were treated and no one has even done anything to help them. The prisons are full of people who were abused as children. If these children had been given the help they needed, other social problems like crime would be massively reduced. I found it upsetting that Lucy wasn't automatically given counselling. Apparently it had to be applied for. Also children need love more than anything else. I hope that Lucy's insolated state is not representative of life in children's homes. Perhaps I would not have been better off in a home? But I would choose that if I had to live through my childhood again. I would take that risk.
    Posted by anonymous on 27/05/2009 21:27:16
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  6. This is a very strange film, I am 17 years old and have been in the care system three years now in a residential home. I found this film very wrong. reason being that care staff would not argue and fight in front of the young people placed in these homes. I do believe things can go on but surely not that significient. When i went into the care system i did not have that much clothing but as soon as i nearly got their there was clothes bought, toillitries and other things that every child needs. I just found this film very distubing because people who have watched it are going to be thinking that it happens in all kids homes e.g. the violenece and abuse, also that we do not attend school and instead decide to go shoplifting. yes sometimes it might happen but within the three years in residential care and still probably for another year i do not believe that this would happen. The film is going to make people think bad of social services and us kids in care. Half way throughout the film it was showing the little girl keep on wondering off at night which i do believe is actually untrue because even in the days it may occured the had keys to lock the door so then the residents living there would not only feel safe from burgularys but from going out without anyone noticing that they had gone. Also i had noticed half way thorugh the film the little girl had a LAC Review which all kids in care either in foster placements or residentail homes have and they had a poster in the background with a every chil;d matters logo which was only produced in 2004. So it is very hard for me to understand if they were trying to give the viewers an impression of what it is like now in the care system or when it happened. I feel this story was meant to make a bad impression and why do we never get a story that is about good times in care because i am sure enough there are a lot more and maybe one day i will create one.
    Posted by Sharon Goulding on 26/05/2009 14:22:42
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  7. even though i wasn't in care system somehow felt like weird sense of responbility to the girl lucy etc i felt like i had personal touch within the story had so much to give and tell to society as a whole as children within the care system i feel positive step forward showing what it like in the child's POV! is very important to always remember it did move you -sympathy so defiantely part of this drama throughout very well made and written and makes you think what's really out of life-reality harsh and true! happening everyday! all time! isn't fair to let children carry on suffering this gave real sense of heartfelt emotion! well done should be proud! your own personal experiences were shown throughout of lost confused little girl being so scared and alone really came across i'm sure by showing this you have made a huge wave and telling alot people's own stories and experiences across this country they wouldnn't have a opportunity to 'voice' their stories /experiences they went through so glad you did! made me realise how lucky i am to have a 'normal' family and how grateful i am! having a settled family from young so affects you when your older if you havn't had this chance in life! sam you shown how you can still be sucessful even with a background so bad as yours clearly was! you have proved it here today! you've shown your life experiences is what you make it! even if had bad start in life by parents,famly cirumstances etc! the wholw country will be debating this whole subject for very long time to come and that can only mean good things come out of publicising this matter further great job done! it important more programmes like this are made to shock yet get the facts and points across to society/public professionals that need to be made! and seen in focus! good luck to all those that relate to this personal story of drama but true life to many! i wish you 'true happiness' and sucess like sam you true survivors of abuse! XKLX
    Posted by kirst-lou on 25/05/2009 18:43:20
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  8. i really enjoyed the unloved and i think that it was a very good drama and it would have showed alot of people what children go through and what sort of people there is in this world today. i would love to play n a drama like this myself because it really does teach people alot. ThankYou Aimee x x x
    Posted by aimee on 23/05/2009 15:09:03
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  9. I am a 16 year old girl and I have been in care since I was 3 years old. I lived with foster carers until I was 13 and then got moved to a residential home and I've been here ever since. I know my situation isn't ideal, but I think that this film got it completly wrong. I am cery well cared for. The staff that look after me are fun, kind and seem to really care. I am in a good school and I'm half way thru my GCSE's (expected all A-Cs). I have a big group of friends who I am aloud to have sleep over and I can go to them. I do loads of out of school activities (horse riding, swimming, netball) and in August, the whole house (kids and staff) are goin to France on holiday. I feel safe at my home and I know the others I live with do to. I know that my staff would never treat us in the same way as the staff in unloved treat the kids there. They always have time for us and don't let it bother them when someones kicking off, even when they get kicked, punched, spat at or threatened - not by me though! This film actually kinda upset me, just cuz it got it soooo wrong. Obviously being in care isn't as good as having a proper normal family. But for teenagers like me, it's a lot better than livin with our real families. I know that if I had stayed with my mum there is no way I'd be doin as good as i am today. KellyX
    Posted by Kelly on 23/05/2009 00:52:02
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  10. The Unloved is one of the most powerful dramas I have ever seen. The way it was written and dirested was amazing. I really felt that I was a part of Lucy. I work as a learning mentor in a very large school in southeast london and I have worked with children in the care system and watching the unloved has given a lot more of an understanding of what it must be like for children in care. It has also inspired me to one day open my own childrens care home. I really hope that I can make a diiference for children in care.
    Posted by Rachel on 21/05/2009 12:11:52
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  11. I have been waiting for a story like the unloved to come to television for many years. I also grew up in care, with a family but I had good friends in residential homes.I love the way Sam brought it home to Nottingham.I actually lived in the same house as Sam as a late teen.So its great to see that somebody from the "care system" make it.This film was terribly moving and close to home. The opening scene gave me goose bumps. The same care system now has my three sons, so the cycle reapeats itself AGAIN.Thanks Sam for making this film.
    Posted by melizza moore on 21/05/2009 12:02:25
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  12. this drama disturbed me to the point that i saw my ignorence in life outside what im used to with my children and situations around me. i cried from the 1st scene. children should not be ignored whatever their situation. that little girl needed a cuddle. and to be told she d be ok. the child protection system seems to lack in the simple things in life we all need. a cuddle. some listening time is not a lot to ask. why is it that dramas as perfectly shown, such as this one, points out key factors in our failours to help these poor children that the people responsible for their upbringing fail to give the simple things in life, , , , a cuddle and an ear.....well done channel 4 for this drama,,,, but choking that it has to be highlighted through a tv show........ children are our future, and were once you and me,,,,, we should be doing more to mend these tiny peoples broken hearts.....
    Posted by jemma on 21/05/2009 00:51:25
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  13. Wow!!! what a brilliant drama and well done samantha morton, not only are you a brilliant actress but as you've now proved your also a brilliant director. I'm shocked and appalled at the way children are treated and almost left to fend for themselves in the care system, this film really opened up my eyes and allowed me to see life from a childs point of view, i just cant believe whats going on in the world today and thankfully samantha because of people like you who are passionate about what they do and willing to give back and not forget what it was like where you came for, many eyes will now be opened. I hope this film is shown again on channel 4 because its programmes like these that really show us what real life is really all about and i am definateley going to look into fostering because if i can help just one child i'd be happy knowing i was able to do that. Onece again Samantha well done.
    Posted by Rashida on 21/05/2009 00:35:04
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  14. Identified with film on many levels having spent 18 yrs 'in care'. Abused in every way but somehow survived. Thank god there are people like Sam Morton to put forward a voice and vision. Well done.
    Posted by Linda on 20/05/2009 23:35:19
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  15. I relate to so many parts of this film.So much packed into what is quite a short film, but not so that it feels crowded. But it unsettles me as the truth does. There is no easy answer but there are experiences that must not, and can not be forgotten. That's what this film uncomfortably awakens in me. "KERRI on 18 May 2009 at 10:20 Boo Boo I've missed it does anyone know if or when it's repeated at all?? :o( :o( :o( " - Kerri this film is available on 4OnDemand which you can download for free.
    Posted by Nicky on 20/05/2009 23:13:13
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  16. In a funny sort of way I enjoyed the film although it portrayed a very intense display of emotions and behaviour. Part of me was repulsed but I was drawn to the little girl who seemed totally overlooked. She seemed to float through the scenes. I thought it a great piece.
    Posted by Lynda Baker on 20/05/2009 20:29:00
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  17. Miss Morton, this is a beautifully paced piece, dripping truths, portraying painfully honest moments, compelling one to never look away from the screen. The cast were absolutely superb in their portrayals of the characters and the characters were real, their actions, words, lack of actions and lack of words were so well captured. Like the film, 'Kes', it is a seminal piece of work and credit is due to everyone concerned with the production.
    Posted by Jaxs on 20/05/2009 20:27:44
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  18. Utterly amazing. I have watched the film twice, so far, the second time with my husband. Both times in tears. After several unsuccessful attempts at IVF and as a direct result of watching this film, we have decided to try to adopt a child. This film has changed my life. Molly Windsor is an amazing actress in a truly inspiring piece. Thank you, Samantha.
    Posted by Lara on 20/05/2009 11:42:16
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  19. thank you Samantha, Tony and the whole team of cast and crew for giving a story the space to breathe and the time to evolve, the feel of a documentary with the holistic embodiment of a film. Glad to say it will stay with me, deeply moved by the mother daughter scene where the affection was portrayed through the stroking of the cat. I watch drama to challenge my all too nice little life, to live beyond my nice little life, my own sliding door on the world. Feel like, just for tonight i've really lived a tiny slice of a life that should be a historical perspective not a modern fact. Channel 4 - this is what i expect of you and am all too disappointed notto receive. Molly - a truly special thing you've achieved with the team. Keep up all the good work. One of the channels has to!
    Posted by JustinePotter on 19/05/2009 23:28:30
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  20. What a stunning film. The most touching moments for me were when Lucy was wandering around on her own and how she observed things, as this totally reflected my own childhood - staring at the intricacies of the spider web in particular. I haven't seen anything else that so cleary mirrors the internal world of a disconnected child.
    Posted by Mary on 19/05/2009 21:46:25
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  21. I sat with my Mum and watched this on 4 on demand and we didn't speak for two hours. We couldn't. We were completely engrossed. It was utterly heartbreaking - especially when Lucy got those new jeans with the transfers and her new cardigan and went downstairs and noone even looked at her. It makes me cry just thinking about it. Samantha Morton continues to do fantastic work. I follow her career with interest, not least because our grandma's were sisters - although I have never met her. Congratulations to Samantha Morton and Channel Four for a beautiful and haunting piece of drama.
    Posted by Jane Upton on 19/05/2009 19:13:24
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  22. ABSOLUTLY FABULOUS DRAMA PUT TOGETHER TO PERFECTION..REALLY GAVE ME AN INSIGHT INTO MY DAUGHTERS WORKING LIFE AND HOW SHE CAN GET ATTACHED EVEN THOUGH SHE SHOULDN'T...MADE ME REALISE HOW IMPORTANT MY DAUGHTERS WORK IS AND HOW AND WHY SHE IS SO FULLFILLED WHEN SHE HELPS A CHILD OR AN ADULT AND WHY SHE GETS SO DOWN WHEN ITS THE OPPOSITE RESULT...MANY MANY THANKS TO SAMANTHA MORTON
    Posted by TRACI on 19/05/2009 16:09:29
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  23. I have just seen The Unloved on Catch Up. Wow! What compelling viewing! How heart breaking! Thank-you Samantha for bringing your experience's in care to the screen - I now really and truly understand the experience that my adopted daughter's birth mother went through. She was in residential care from the time she was 8 years old and indeed had my adopted daughter whilst still in care as a teenager. Of course she couldn't cope with raising a child after the childhood she experienced and I have only felt empathy for her- after seeing this film it is even more profound. I also feel so grateful that I have the opportunity to change the destiny of her birth child, now my adopted daughter. She is most wonderful, unique child - beautiful inside and out and I love her with all my heart and soul.
    Posted by sue on 19/05/2009 14:18:29
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  24. Show this to all of those greedy grubbing politicians! Maybe they would think twice about spending ?18,000 on bookcases! Absolutely fascinating film, so well done, Samantha, you have a gift.......
    Posted by Anne on 19/05/2009 11:17:57
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  25. Heartbreaking...
    Posted by DKS on 19/05/2009 10:07:10
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  26. The drama " Unloved " was absolutely moving and gripping to watch. The young actress " lucy " was exceptional in her role and it really brought home how children are not given the care and attention they should receive when " in care ". Extremely well written and portrayed, I only wish I had the money to help change it!
    Posted by Susan on 19/05/2009 09:37:38
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  27. Before I go, I would like to say that no one is truly unloved unless they are completely dangerous to others around them. Parents lose it so easily and it must be hard to lose your child into the care system, and even more frustrating when you can only sit back and watch it do a far worse job, but it does save some. I think the main issue isn't so much about money, which does help, but more importantly it is about people being stronger and believing they can make a difference no matter how small. For people to give a lot more heart and soul, and remember what happens when these young people reach 18. There needs to be a rock put in place for them to come back to, some way they can keep in touch with each other, like a drop in centre for ex residents only, to encourage them to want to keep in touch (sibling rivalry can be a pain). And the only other thing is education with films and documentaries such as C4's 'Lost Children' season.
    Posted by Alison on 19/05/2009 01:39:49
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  28. I don't think I'm a mover or a shaker particularly but I was moved to watch the film the unloved. I have friends who work in care homes for children and they would say they throw money at the children without any thought of what they are going to do with it. It is true that they must feel unloved. I was moved at the fear I felt watching the film and then thought how a child must feel living these days of uncertainty and fear. I have 4 daughters whom we planned for and love very much. I try to make my children feel safe in this world but while watching this film i was trying to rationalise fostering a child from care so that they feel loved and safe.
    Posted by julie on 18/05/2009 23:18:09
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  29. What an utterly amazing piece of work and how inspiring Samantha is in her debut as a director, this film moved me so much. I found it so desperately painful to watch, the fact that Lucy did not shed a tear, but yet her pain, sadness and rejection was so tangible.The sad truth is that there are so many vulnerable children in our cities, towns and villages, simply saying "I can't believe that happens" is denying this very uncomfortable and traumatising reality.I haven't been able to stop thinking about it all day and feel so thankful that our beautiful children are asleep in bed, knowing that they are loved and cherished, unconditionally.
    Posted by ED on 18/05/2009 22:54:07
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  30. Having spent a few years in residential care around the early nineties i feel it was an excellent and realistic protrayal of the care system at that particular time. I was touched by Lucy, her young life characterised by such a lack of love, care and instability, so empty and vulnerable in being moved to different placements, her presentation and her lack of trust in adults, sadly so typical a situation of so many children and young people in the system. I am now 32 and have worked as a social worker with looked after children for a eight years. I am passionate about trying to make decisions which are right for children which also promote their emotional wellbeing aswell as safeguarding them, unfortunately this is a constant battle given the way the system still operates- yes positive changes have been made since then but they dont go far enough and crucially the emotional difficulties of the more damaged children remain largely ignored. We are all aware a child needs to feel valued and a positive sense of self to make lasting achievements in their lives and to cope with lifes challenges. This is impossible to achieve when children have to move to multiple placements including residetial care due to lack of finances and resources. Sadly the situation has not changed a great deal and it can be soul destroying to see such damaged young people and being somewhat powerless to provide the level of support and services required to meet their needs. Although there are many committed workers the system itself remains inadequate in meeting the hollistic needs of children with the resources available and providing them with the crucial support they require to recover from their early traumatic exoeriences and much more needs to be invested in this group for emotional support and psychotherapy and post 16 support if the cycle is to be broken. So many looked after young people go on to live empty and unfulfilled lives and only few appear to find the strength to fight hard to achieve goals and make the most of the opportunties in their lives. Without doubt looked after children are one of the most vulnerable groups in society. Thanks for highlighting this again in this powerful way hopefully it will reach out to people - to workers and those who have the power to make some changes
    Posted by N on 18/05/2009 22:43:58
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  31. It moved me so much; Ive never seen such a sad film; working with young children as a teacher I see and hear of some horrific stories but this just blew my mind. I couldn't get to sleep last night thinking of what I could do (either big or small things). I missed the first 5minutes; am I right in thinking it was set in the 1970s then; somebody please tell me those things don't go on now-a-days; surely a care home should be a loving and caring home for children, with loving and caring staff who love and care for the children. We treat our children at school with as much care, passion and respect as if they are our own. Please somebody tell me that that also happens in children's homes now-a-days too. It has given me even more empathy for those who have such unfortunate starts in life. I don't know what else to say which hasn't already been said but I hope someone (to do with the film!) reads some of these messages - Ive never replied to one of these things before. Maybe some of the millions of pounds which the Government spends on expenses (!) or stupid new 'schemes' for things could go on tarting up all care homes for children and paying the staff the appropriate wage; give those kids every opportunity to be safe and loved. But obviously they haven;t got millions because it gets wasted on things like the Millenium Dome, warfare and second homes! How can I help Samantha?
    Posted by Joe on 18/05/2009 22:16:35
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  32. This is a wonderful film - beautifully shot and very absorbing. It is a very real and very arresting portrait of a young girl lost in the care system, and I am very seriously considering recommending it as essential viewing to my colleagues (in Social Care). We shouldn't ever forget how confusing, disorientating, lonely and silent the experience of being in care can be for children - it doesn't matter how many times we deal with it, they only deal with it once. I was also really pleased to see it didn't utterly demonise social workers - though I will try to always remember how awful that meeting between Lucy and her social worker was, and how important it is to really try and talk. We all should have the skills, we just forget to use them sometimes, especially with the 'quiet ones'. It did remind me why I don't have papers on my lap during visits too! But I would like to say that in my experience things have changed in residential care: the units I have worked in and with keep a much closer eye on all their kids, and are much more worried when a child absconds (though getting at the reason why is still sometimes a challenge). Also, I was horrified to see the abuse of Lauren: I cannot imagine something like this being allowed to happen in any of the units I have had any experience with, or the discovery of it being handled in the same way. I hope I have not just been 'lucky'. I know we are still struggling with the same dilemmas and the same contradictions in social work, and we always will in some ways, but I hope things have moved on a little. And I also hope that even just one of the young people I work with will someday make a film, or a piece of art work, as amazing as this is: what a thing to do with your experiences.
    Posted by C on 18/05/2009 22:16:06
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  33. Was not what I was expecting.. I found it really moving and related with the characters and experiences because it was so real. Amazing film,sometimes hard to watch,but excellent.
    Posted by Michelle M on 18/05/2009 21:57:03
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  34. What an amazing film. Having worked in the care system myself I found this a true representation of life within a care home. Although at times this film was hard to watch, it portrays a piece of life that so many want to ignore. At the end I found myself wanting to know more - I want to know what happened to Lucy. Obviously at this is based on Samanthas life I feel that I know that she has come out the other side okay although probably very scarred. A truly amazing personal piece of work. This showed the reality of placing vulnerable children in situations which are probably just as dangerous as the homes they have been removed from. The endless vicious cycles that these children often live through. Thank you Samantha for a truly inspirational film.
    Posted by rachel on 18/05/2009 21:11:27
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  35. it was a good program i wish another one was coming out
    Posted by kristian howarth on 18/05/2009 19:40:44
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  36. A fabulous, fabulous programme. I really hope things have changed in children's homes since the 1970's - I was shouting at the telly for someone to get Lucy some clothes, wash her socks, give her a cuddle and get her into her own bedroom. Well done Samantha Morton, watching this really opened my eyes to what so many poor children go through.
    Posted by Katie on 18/05/2009 18:07:52
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  37. Loved it.Thank-you x
    Posted by katiec on 18/05/2009 17:26:25
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  38. The film was very absorbing. Very well written and excellent acting by Lucy. Having been in and out of the care system since birth there were many aspects of the film I could relate to completely. Especially the lonliness portrade by Lucy, the agony that lonliness felt. Many desperate sobbing tears were shred during my young years.(Yet Lucy did not shed one!) Her face was full of sadness and it did not need a tear to show that. I remember the Reviews and the sudden interest the carer would take in me just a few days before so that she could report back on what I had been doing! The lack of sincerity and passion by those 'professionals' was portrade well in the film. In my experience there was no emotional bond, trust, love. In the film the social worker explains that now she has her petrol money sorted that she was now able to visit Lucy. How unprofessional but in my experience typically insensitive! Lucy's expression spoke volumes! The scene also where the social worker asks Lucy about absconding and remarks something like "we cant have this now can we?" so so cold! so awful! That was just what it was like. I always looked well cared for on the surface with my nice clothes and smart uniform, in my heart I was hurting so bad craving for someone to love me, to fill that hole in my sole that ached so bad.(and still does!) I could see those feelings in Lucy's face too. My experience of childrens home was much more oppressive than in this film. There was no food fights, swearing. There was lots of running away, being brought back by the police, the carer would have a giggle with the police officer and off the officer would go. I observed that same uncaring approach in the film. No one really asking why? In my experience just punishments given. The oppression I experienced was suffercating! my experience has left me feeling inferior to others and lacking in confidence. On the surface I have done well in my life, but emotionally I will, like many others who had bad childhood experiences, will have a life time of deep pain. Thank you Samantha for a thought provoking film. I hope those who think they know best learn lots from watching it!
    Posted by CARE SYSTEMS!! on 18/05/2009 17:22:50
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  39. Samantha I thought the programme and your success has been fantastic and I admire your strength to pursue your passion to get your story onto TV. I wrote a Book - The Cornflake Kid - I spent my early teenage and adolescence in local authority care in Scotland. I was born into a Scottish tenement flat and forced with the rest of his family to leave my father and watch the slow death of my mother. For the remainder of my early years, my life is characterised by care from half committed relatives, occasional returns to my drunken fathers care and eventually taken into the Scottish care system. Only the memory of my mother provided me with any lodestone to direct my life. Being in care brings further separation and rejection from my brothers and the onset of glue sniffing, but also the discovery of an inner strength, which provides my salvation. Not all is despair and the glue-induced hallucinations and my love for music give me the escape I so badly needed. I survive the care system. On the path of self-discovery I finds the real Mark Riddell. I end up as an extra on Rambo III and becomes a drinking companion of Sylvester Stallone. I then get on a career path of social worker and advocate for children in care, where i remain today as a manager in socail care. I would like to get a copy of my book to Samantha as there is limited avenues for these type of books and would just like her to have a look at it. If you would like a good read then let me know and i will send you a copy.
    Posted by Mark Riddell on 18/05/2009 17:17:09
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  40. Couldn't wait to watch Samantha's debut, such a talented and emotive actress who never fails to produce something heartfelt and passionate on screen. I wasn't disappointed, I've never seen such a wonderful portrayal of seeing the world through child's eyes. The scene where Lucy looks up to the light fitting on the ceiling got me hook, line and sinker in to her world and from then on, wonderfully done.
    Posted by Nat on 18/05/2009 16:49:15
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  41. I just wanted to say what a moving portrayl of the lonliness and lack of hope some children are faced with. I belive that many adults struggle to identify, associate and even believe that this is the relaity for some. Thank you to Samantha Morton for wearing her heart on her sleeve and coming forward with such a personal story to tell. It certainly resounded with experiences from my past and although it was uncomfortable viewing at times, there was something beautful about having those feelings articulated in such a rightful way.
    Posted by Alt2009 on 18/05/2009 15:59:27
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  42. What a directorial debut! Never in my history of watching film or film have I felt so compelled to congratulate someone. It was so well constructed and had such powerful use of imagery. Subtle, strong and powerful it kept me gripped through out. They way you managed to portray the abuse, imagination, longing, acceptance, innocence from the child was so realistic. Although painful, as a mother I kept saying to my husband how she was out too late alone, didn't have a coat on in the freezing cold, said nothing when she witnessed what she witnessed,it provided me with the push I needed to start putting a plan of fostering or voluntary work at residential childrens homes in to effect. Something my husband and I have been discussing for years. I'm sure it did the same for many others and I can think of no greater outcome then that. Congratulations again. Sarah
    Posted by Sarah from Oxon on 18/05/2009 15:17:01
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  43. Having just adopted two girls (sisters) under a year ago my wife and I have watched every bit of Channel 4's 'Britain's Forgotten Children' season. The Unloved made me think about my girls' experiences,before us, and it also made me think about their parent's experiences and how this may have led to the eventuality of their children being taken in to care. My world view has changed in oh so many ways as a result of the changes in my life with my girls arrival, the knowledge of what their background was and now how rich I am as a dad to have two of the most beautiful (inside and out) creatures in my life. If this series can encourage other families to consider adopting so that other children can be given the experience of normally family life, where they are loved, then what a thing for a public broadcaster to do. Congratulations to Channel 4, I am with you in this.
    Posted by Derek on 18/05/2009 15:14:37
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  44. Congratulations Channel 4 on another "truth". Congratulations to Samatha Morton - takes great courage to protray the "truth" about our so-called care system. Imagine what could have happen, if Social Workers were allowed to be social workers (rather than paper-pushers), imagine if parents who love their children could were offered quality counselling & parenting skills rather than just remove their kids and imagine, and finally, just imagine, if we lived in a society that didn't protray a romantic image of raising children! Lets live in hope for change..... Well done Channel 4!!!
    Posted by Growing up in foster care on 18/05/2009 14:29:44
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  45. It was stunning and captivating. I felt so sad for Lucy - the scene where her mum puts her on the bus is especially heartbreaking and put me in my place. There was so little dialogue but the film speaks volumes, and I totally agree with Morton's decision not to set it in 1989; it would have felt too nostalgic and would have done little to highlight the current situation in Britain's care system. Congratulations on an incredible film, and thanks for sharing your story.
    Posted by RH on 18/05/2009 14:15:58
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  46. I was a child in care, in the early seventies and Samantha is right things have not moved on. I identified with the drama in every way although the only issue that I did not experience is the betrayal of trust between child and residential social worker or house parents as we called them in those days. At the age of 12 I went into a childrens home through no fault of my own,already under a supervision order it was no longer safe for me to stay at home, my mother was a victim of domestic violence, the decision had been made. I can still remember the feelings of emptiness, loneliness and bewilderment like those of Lucy. In care I witnessed teenage pregnancy, underage sex, solvent abuse,absconders,shoplifting and shared my life with children who had committed crimes. It was like I was sitting on a cloud watching a drama unfold, but this was real.I was lucky my mother visited me regularly and because of this the authorities decided for me that it was unsettling and wanted to move me many miles away, leaving my mother, school friends and everything that was making my life relatively normal, fortunately this did not happen. This adversity has made me a very strong character, I now have a family of my own, a loving husband and two loving boys. If asked the question about my childhood I could not honestly say it was enjoyable, my quest was for my boys to answer the same question with a resounding yes!. Well Done Sam , I am still in tears today.
    Posted by Karen on 18/05/2009 13:46:03
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  47. What an incredibly moving drama, watched by both myself and my fourteen year old daughter (an Eastenders addict!). Samantha Morton has definately succeeded in moving us both - well done for opening our eyes to a subject few people fully appreciate, understand or perhaps even want to acknowledge exists in our lives today.
    Posted by Leigh on 18/05/2009 13:21:22
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  48. One of the best dramas I've seen, along with No child of mine. Brilliantly effective directing (really only could have been done by an experienced person)....due to the fact I watched with my head lowered the whole time, the feeling of uncomfortable and intrusiveness was amazing. Scenes that bought tears to my eyes were when she hugged her father(bliss, even though he was a useless father), when she had to leave her bed in the night and when her mother put her on the bus(I noticed how the cat had a place in that house but not Lucy). But all through, she never cried which makes me think she'd had alot of similar heart numbing experiences already in her little life. Also noticed how Lucy as a character was physically still quite babyish even though she was 11(her hands on the CDs, holding her toys and taking off her socks etc)which for me having a 5 year old girl who I ADORE was very very sad. Family life is SO precious and important to every single child everywhere......it pains me to know so many get it so wrong. And the system is so SLOW, in it's actions and it's thinking - how do people become so complacent when confused and upset children are involved? Supporting and loving these children is THE most important issue in the world today.The future of the world relies on the children of today. Brilliant film.......please make more and continue to bring this to the front of peoples lives more often. I feel(hope) a radical change in how children are treated by the system is a posibility in the next 12 months with this sort of influence.
    Posted by TT on 18/05/2009 12:57:56
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  49. having watched the film last night, i have to question what it would mean to me if i did not work in residential care. The obviously powerful acting of (lucy) really came through and showed the emotions that children in care go through. i did feel that it portrayed a negative stereotypical view of residential care in showing the male worker abusing the child. more often that not, people who i speak to still have this view of childrens homes. ( that it is a place where bad, sad or mad kids go ) i can appreciate it would be difficult to portray a positve view without making it factual, and losing dramatical content and power. although i did enjoy watching it. i felt cheated as viewer, as it didnt go onto explain the relationship with mum. but all in all good film.
    Posted by gary on 18/05/2009 12:47:03
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  50. I would like to congratulate C4 for having the courage to produce this film. It is one of the best about contemporary Britain that I have ever seen. I don't usually find much on C4 that interests me but this definitely moved me so much - I really felt something deeply profound about contemporary Britain: the way we treat and neglect our children. You saw it in the the sadness of Lucy's face: what all children feel when they are alone in the world - uncared for by adults and the society they live in. The film said it in images that created this utter feeling of loneliness - what could be a more dreadful feeling than a child feeling alone and abandoned in an uncaring world. I would like to congratulate Samantha Morton be being able to share with this intimate picture of a reality that is too often show but not really comprehended from the perspective of the child. I just could not keep my eyes of the face of Lucy. Her expressionless face just represented for me a pain that was unsaid because it could not be comprehended by someone not yet able to communicate pain. It was heartbreaking and difficult to watch a child's face with no joy. And the odd smile that you did get from Lucy was like an explosion on the screen. She said very little but said so much. But I did not find the film pessimistic, on the contrary it showed how children, and maybe all of us, will find a way to communicate, sometimes in the most distorted and violent ways, that we truly desire to be need by others, that we mean something to them, that they care enough for us to be able to be selfless and giving. For me it showed how people have been made to feel detached and hopeless about life, and that it makes them feel detached and indifferent from others, including their own children. Maybe I am reading too much into this but that what I got from the father and mother's dilemma. I thought the scene when Lucy was trying to make contact with her mother and father powerful, and gripping. It did not blame anybody but tried to understand what was going on with them. That they just could not cope with life and therefore could not cope with raising 'another life'. The most touching scene was when Lucy went into pub to search for her father. At first she remains distant. The shot is wonderful. And then she starts playing with her fathers, I think, cigarettes. The gulf between the two seemed so immense that is seemed impossible to cross but when it did happen it was electric. This is what only film can do - it gives you that larger picture while the intimate happen, which is not really possible in theatre. Visually the film is beautiful. But I mean more than just the surface of the film. It looked beautiful because it was trying, successfully, to communicate something more profound: the search of the child to find joy and meaning through meaningful human contact i.e. with her parents. But this could be generalised to any human contact. It just makes it more poignant because it is done through a child but it equally applies to all of us. Finally, what really clinched it for was the scene in the house when Lucy comes across Dante's Inferno and she reads the first terzina. A brilliant touch that fitted so beautifully to that moment in the film. For me it univerlised the film to a mega dimension. Dante's begins the search for meaning in the universe through starting the journey through hell. Only then, with the help of Virgil, could he find Divine Love. But Lucy had no one but herself to make that journey. So her journey was a lonely one into the darkness. A journey where only she could find her own way through the darkness to the light. And the last scene for me - Lucy on the bus - indicated that she may be able to make through the darkness. Her sad face filled with sunlight as she road on a bus. I imagined that there was a hint of a smile on her face under the glare of the sunlight. It filled me with tremendous hope!. Bravo Samantha!
    Posted by Hussain Ismail on 18/05/2009 12:30:10
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  51. Just to second what others have already said here. I was already a massive fan of Samantha Mortan's acting and now have a new respect for her as a director and an individual for surviving her harrowing childhood. This was a very very moving film where both the acting and direction showed exactly what the audience needed to know and learn without forcing anything. Watching this as a pregnant mother of two was an intense experience and has affected me deeply. Which good art should always do.
    Posted by KR on 18/05/2009 12:06:55
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  52. i think u made a great film and and will proberly make people open their eyes and stop these things happening ps ur a star
    Posted by kdswift on 18/05/2009 11:56:35
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  53. I watched this film last night. I am shocked to say that I wasn't shocked by its content. For me, it highlighted so many staffing issues within the care system for one. The 'movers and shakers' need to invest in their staff, provide appropriate training across the board, not just within the care system. I know of many people who have jobs in the care field who 'care' about their role, but don't have the sufficient knowledge about their client group. I thought this film was very clever in the way that the audience sees these flaws from Lucy's point of view. For those of us who don't have anything to do with the child care system, we can experience an element of empathy for some of the staff, as we may respond in a similar way without knowing any different, with the exception of the abuser. I was fascinated by tension I felt when characters Lucy and Lauren were together. I frequently thought worse would happen to both, regarding drug use and criminal behaviour. But that's the beauty of the film, it leaves their past and their fate to our imagination.
    Posted by Steph on 18/05/2009 11:51:27
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  54. I watched The Unloved last night - such an excellent and acutely important film. It is still bringing tears to my eyes today. I work with one of the agencies dealing providing information and advice to young people so was aware of the situation which lots of children in care are experiencing but it was useful and very emotional to see it from a child's view. I feel that Samantha Morton has succeeded with what she set out with when making this film and hope that policy makers withing the care system will see it - to me it seems important that practitioners SEE and LISTEN to the young people we are dealing with and then advocate on their behalf with their best interests always at the centre. Nothing is going to heal the wound that being abandoned /taken from your family (for whatever reason) will bring but we need to make the best of an awful situation.
    Posted by K on 18/05/2009 11:11:03
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  55. This is one of the most stunning films I've ever seen. This is how good a film can be when the director is not driven by ego alone. The camera angle says it all, this film is with the character, at her level. There's nothing unnecessary, no endless preachy dialogue, just a real experience for the audience and beautiful as well with lots of space within it to actually feel and think about the characters. Amazing film, congratulations to everyone who made it.
    Posted by VH on 18/05/2009 10:57:20
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  56. Boo Boo I've missed it does anyone know if or when it's repeated at all?? :o( :o( :o(
    Posted by Kerri on 18/05/2009 10:20:20
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  57. I was in contact with sam while in the childrens home before she became famous. I am finding this film surreal as it was only yesterday evening with two very close friends in my life i havin dinner and these two people were actualy two of my residential social workers from my latter days in skegby hall. Bein in care was a god send to me and since leaving when i was 15 because the home was closing i have had a very interesting life. I am 33 yrs old now and in the later stages of the hiv virus and would have loved to have had the opportunity to do what sam has done with the mokin of this film.
    Posted by joshua on 13/05/2009 12:42:17
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  58. Its a blessing to see when people in high profile positions do such wider good by bringing and highlighting the struggles of soo many forgotten children. Its wonderful that Ms Morton is playing a part. As a whole, it is sad that the media and others in high places do not report on the plight of these young souls often enough. All children deserve the chance to grow up in nurtured loving environments. It would be good if others would use there positions to highlight injustices in the world. When we help heal individuals, we heal ourselves, we heal societies, and thus we help heal the global world.
    Posted by M on 12/05/2009 07:30:22
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