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Muslim and Looking for Love

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If you're young, single and Muslim, finding love is getting increasingly difficult.

Qualifications, height, job prospects and even complexion are high on the list of demands. Then there's the question of nationality. Will your husband or wife come from Britain or from abroad?

For professional women, educated Muslim men are in short supply. Muslim men tend to marry at a younger age, not good news when you're pushing 30.

At the Birmingham Central Mosque, they think they have the answer. As well as ministering to its congregation, it also offers the services of one of the largest Muslim marriage bureaus.

The Bureau has over a thousand people on its books and Mr Haq and Mr Razzaq are the voluntary matchmakers. Unlikely as it may seem, these two middle-aged men are at the vanguard of a Muslim marriage revolution. For them, the Bureau offers a third way, a space between the traditional arranged marriage and the Western dating scene.

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Sunday 26 July 2009 7PM Channel 4

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Thursday 30 July 2009 4AM Channel 4

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  1. How can i find a good looking muslim to love that will change my way of living.
    Posted by Kazeem Bello on 03/10/2009 15:07:10
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  2. Heard so much about this programme and how fabulous it was, was hoping to catch it here but you have removed it. aaawww!! Is it possible for you to e-mail it to me? Desperate to see it!!
    Posted by zara on 12/09/2009 00:47:57
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  3. The way things have been doen in this documentry does not reflect the Islamic way, and halal way of Marriage. It is a compramise which many muslims disagree with includign myself. Its a Cultural way of doing things... a cultural practice adopted mainly by the Asian muslims. It is nto acceptable in Islam. In terms of meeting a man alone, even with intention for marriage, The conversation, and also the point of meeting that person. It did not suprise me at all to see these singletons talking about superficial things, things which are not so important. if this was to be doen the islamic way, as we are told in the Hadiths.. the Prophet SAW tells us to look for Deen/Religion in our partner, and non of these couples were. apart from the Egyptian girl, sarah. I was dissapointed as i was expecting to see a programme on how marriage should be doen islamically and examples of it in the West. Instead it was a documentry on a Asian cultural practice that is not relevant to any other muslims. This way does not have any relevance to The arab muslims, or the african muslims, or the Revert muslims, english etc etc. its focused on asians. But was good to see how they do things, and why thier methods do not work becuase they are looking for such superficial things. Overall i give the documentry 4/10
    Posted by Muslimah on 27/08/2009 18:25:16
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  4. I liked the clip but its a shame that you're no longer showing the actual whole episode :( *ah GO ON ! put it on and give us all a chance to watch it ! ???
    Posted by Bishy on 27/08/2009 04:13:23
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  5. great to see some compassion and tolerance from the imams, a hopeful reminder that not every muslim is a fundamentalist...
    Posted by east meets west on 10/08/2009 20:34:25
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  6. a very interesting programme, but i have to say myself as a muslim, that i'm pretty much against all of this, i didn't like it at all, i don't believe in using websites or marriage bureaus to find matches, and i personally didn't like the imams, and i don't think its right!, but thats my opinion!
    Posted by Against The World on 03/08/2009 02:20:36
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  7. I feel proud and greatful living in a community of people that is so diverse. This country is a far more fascinating place with the wonderful cultural mix we have. The Imman who was trying to match partners was an amazing guy, with a great knowledge of people. I am not muslim, but truely appriciate the Immans job to match people. If all people had the concern and support of our communities with our choice of partners, the world would be a better place.
    Posted by Louise on 30/07/2009 04:50:54
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  8. I am an athiest gay woman. But watching the people with Muslim faith on this show, makes me question all faiths. I think that women and men on this program searching for a partner in this manner, with choice is amazing. Allthough i have no belief in any religion, people that have, that choose to follow there beliefs to the word are commendable. I admire people that follow there faith to the word, for me i can respect this. After all we never truely no which one if any is real. It is a blessing for all faiths that we have hopfully matured and we are all more accepting of all people. This is he only way forward. We are all the same people. Of the same value whom ever we are.
    Posted by Louise Hidreth on 30/07/2009 04:36:06
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  9. great programme!
    Posted by joe on 29/07/2009 07:37:18
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  10. just seen this now on line, what a great show, shoing the real problems faced by todays Muslims, not sure how many people saw the show first time round though due to bad advertising?
    Posted by yasmin on 29/07/2009 00:09:29
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  11. Well done channel 4! such excellent gritty entertainment. So good to get a glimse of the challenges that real Muslims are dealing with, and so nice to see a programme about Muslims that has nothing to do with terrorism.
    Posted by Hana on 28/07/2009 22:30:21
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  12. Nice to see a programme about Muslims portraying them as normal people and which isn't about terrorism. So well done Channel 4 (which I don't say very often). That said, why didn't the marriage bureau realize that the Egyptian girl and bloke were going to be a disaster? Everyone else could see it from a mile off.
    Posted by Muhammed on 28/07/2009 15:30:09
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  13. I wanted to give these two men a big hug, because they are doing a fantastic service for the muslim community. I'm sad that the program makers didn't show a single successful match, and I felt this biased the program.
    Posted by H on 28/07/2009 01:48:40
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  14. Program didnt show any successful matches - not because it isnt a successful process, but because not many muslims would be willing to reveal all on national tv. I have successfully used the central mosque - a big thankyou to all people involved at the mosque. The program showed a glimpse, rather than an insight, into the whole process of finding a partner. An enjoyable watch.
    Posted by immy on 27/07/2009 19:25:58
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  15. By not showing a single successful match, this biased documentary makes it look as if the marriage bureau is not a good option for young British muslims. We are sure that the marriage bureau does contribute to successful marriages in the community, and showing a success story would have encouraged muslims to try this route. This 'third way' certainly bridges the gap for lot of British muslims, and is vital for UK's cultural integration in the long run. Instead the documentary maker has cherry picked extreme and unsuccessful cases.
    Posted by Pratibha & Vasan on 26/07/2009 21:27:18
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  16. Many thanks for the program. This has humanized what I have always thought of as an odd practice (my own prejudices and I fully accept this is my ignorance). The Imam that was arranging the marriages was a dude! He demonstrated a whole lot of common sense and practicality to what is perhaps a difficult operation. A very informative program.
    Posted by Tim on 26/07/2009 20:04:25
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