In the 1960s, the most influential book of the era was Dr Benjamin Spock's Baby and Childcare.
The basics include: acknowledges individuality, tailor-made routine, relieves parental guilt, focus on balance.
Features
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Every baby is different so scheduled feeds won't necessarily suit it
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A baby will sleep through the night when it's ready
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Babies need plenty of affection
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Babies should start off sleeping in their parents' room
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Breastfeeding is best – but a mother who decides against for whatever reason should not feel guilty
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Parents should trust their instincts and not be put off by what anyone else is telling them
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Mothers should get plenty of rest and draft in help if necessary
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They should take time out for themselves
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A new mother should remember that her partner was there first and can't be neglected
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Dads should only get involved with childcare as much as they feel comfortable.
Fans
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Parents who believe their child's needs come before their own at first
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Confident parents who aren't looking for answers in books.
Critics
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Anxious new parents looking for black-and-white advice
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Lovers of routine.
Tips
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Follow your instincts. In the words of Dr Spock: "Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do."
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Look after your own needs as well as your child's – so allow visitors but only if they make themselves useful
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Breast or bottle? Dr Spock is not prescriptive, so choose the method that works best for you.
