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Relationship-wrecker money is a hot topic for rows. Rethink your attitude and go for a fairer deal.
Get real
Work out how much you have and set a realistic budget and financial goals. How much will people contribute; what's your spending limit without checking; how much credit can you rack up; are you trying to save? Define the guidelines together, make sure everyone's comfortable with what you agree.
Be accountable
Own up to debt and work together to shed it. Don't be secretive about your spending habits. Consult before committing to big spends.
Look deeper
Money can't solve emotional hang-ups. Take a long hard look at problem spending, and ask yourself what's really behind it.
Wise up
Being well-informed about money makes smart decisions simpler. Ignorance is the root cause of many a financial glitch.
Hold back
Never use money as a weapon. If cash is causing ripples, check that money really is the catalyst. The way people use dosh in a relationship says a lot about who has the power, the freedom and the control.
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