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Will your relationship last the course?


Is your partnership good for the long-term, or are there tears ahead? Try our quiz, and find out where you stand in the stakes for lasting love.


1  In your heart of hearts, what do you reckon are the long-term prospects for this relationship?



2  You're declared bankrupt, you crash the car, your teeth drop out... will your partner still be there for you?



3  Would your partner ever, ever tell you a porky pie?



4  "Something's wrong – we need to talk..." What's your partner's reaction?



5  When did you last have fun together?



6  Have you still got the hots for each other?



7  Is it kids – or no kids?



8  How well do you handle your dosh?



9  Does the whole street know about it when you have a row?



10  How well do you stay in touch with each other's lives?



11  What made you get together with this person, rather than anyone else?



12  Crisis time. How will you cope in a disaster?



13  What annoys you most about your partner?



14  Do you see enough of your family and friends?



15  When you wake up in the morning and see your partner sleeping beside you – what's your first thought?



YOUR SCORE

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How did you do?

35 – 45
You've worked out what it takes to forge a lasting relationship – mutual respect, shared fun, a measure of independence, the ability to cope with problems large and small, openness, trust and a willingness to talk. Don't take it for granted though. Relationships atrophy if they're not lovingly tended, so keep doing what you're doing and your love will last a lifetime.

23 – 35
Your relationship coasts along okay most of the time, but there's more than a touch of complacency there. Deep down, you know that there are a few things that ought to change – but will you bother to tackle them? Watch out your partner doesn't get bored or frustrated. If you put a bit more effort in, you'd both get a lot more out.

15 – 22
Your relationship is seriously lacking in some areas – but you already know that. The question is, what do you want to do about it? If you hope to stay together, you'll both need to get a grip on your problems and start finding solutions. It's hard, but change isn't impossible – all it takes is more compromise, less selfishness, and a good helping of mutual respect.

You can find out more about relationships, including making marriages work and surviving the break-up of a relationship in our 21st Century Family


Making marriage work
Talking about sex
Couples on the rocks
What is a 21st Century Family?
How to break through the emotional turmoil
What happens when they split?
Is it cool to be like a virgin?

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