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Series 1 Get women back in the kitchen campaign

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06/09/2007

Tana Ramsay

Tana Ramsay

Woman on top

They say that behind every great man there's a great woman. And behind Gordon Ramsay there's a woman who thinks that her husband's new campaign is giving some ladies a raw deal. Food writer, mum of four and Gordon's wife, Tana Ramsay speaks out...

How do you feel about Gordon's campaign to get women back in the kitchen?

I think it's fantastic. I think it was taken the wrong way to begin with though. People thought Gordon was telling women they were rubbish in the kitchen. But what Gordon confesses to me in private is that there seems to him to be a whole generation of women out there who never cooked, and then started to panic when they found themselves with husbands and children they had to cater for.

A lot of women have responded to the campaign by saying that it's all very well to say cooking is enjoyable, but when you have to cook for the kids three times a day it really can be a chore. Are women getting a bit of a raw deal here?

That's very true. I had the luxury of not having to work when I had my children and because of that I had a lot of time to teach myself to cook. But a lot of women are trying to juggle work and cooking for the kids. There's a strong argument to say that Gordon's campaign has overlooked that fact.

Why do you think women are cooking less?

I think they're obsessed with their careers. I was the same. All I thought about was work and success. When I was first married I didn't have to cook for my husband because he wouldn't be home from the restaurant until one in the morning. So it was when I had my first baby that I stopped and thought oh my God, what am I going to do?

If you could launch your own food-themed campaign what would it be?

I'd like to get kids back in the kitchen! When you're a busy mum doing the cooking it's so tempting just to send the kids into another room. But I think it's so important for them to get involved with peeling vegetables, and seeing the ingredients. I was never interested when I was young but I'm glad my kids seem to be. Part of the reason we started growing our own veg and fattening up the turkeys was that we wanted the kids to realise food doesn't come from supermarkets. I want them to realise the importance of buying food from a butcher and veg from a market.

How about a campaign to get men back in the kitchen to clean up after themselves once in a while?

Fantastic idea! Gordon is a complete nightmare. And not just in the kitchen, but in the house in general. He just dumps things everywhere. He might cook a lovely meal, but afterwards the kitchen looks like a bomb has hit it. Men definitely need to be shown how to clear up. And another thing: men, Gordon in particular, need to be taught how to cook whilst doing other tasks! When men go into the kitchen, the whole world stops.

The media has given lots of attention to the fact that sit-down family mealtimes are dwindling. Do you sit down together as a family to eat in your house?

Absolutely. I think that's so important. If Gordon's not home I always make sure I sit down with the kids for tea. The television isn't allowed to be on, and I ban books and toys from the table. Part of it is about learning what we've all been up to that day, and part of it is to do with table manners and enjoying food.

It's been reported that you have two kitchens at home because you and Gordon can't cook together. What's all that about?

That's very true. But it's not because we can't or won't cook together. It's because Gordon is so often working on a recipe book or has hundreds of people around. So it's easier if I have my own kitchen to cook family meals.

So would you say that it's you that controls how, when and what the family eats, rather than Gordon?

Absolutely!

Women on the F-word website forum have declared you one of the luckiest women alive owing to the fact you have an amazing chef to cook for you whenever you please. Is it like that in reality?

Oh please! If he fancies cooking, great. But if your husband's a plumber you've probably got the worst pipes on the street because he's never got time to fix them. Actually, it would be really handy to be married to a plumber. Gordon's crap at DIY!

How are you going to bring yourself to kill and cook those lovely turkeys living in your garden at the moment?

They're not lovely, they're horrid and they smell! It would be one thing if they were cuddly little lambs but they're actually revolting.

You were recently commissioned to create a new salad. How did that come about?

The executive chef at the brasserie in Peter Jones asked me to come up with a really simple salad that they could throw together and that people can make at home. It was a lot of fun. It's called the Chelsea salad and it has really tasty leaves, a naughty cheese twist and grilled apricots.

Will we be hearing more from you as a chef then?

Well I'm currently writing a recipe book for busy mums like me. It's going to be full of really simplified recipes, with down to earth ingredients. It's not Gordon food. I don't see why I should have to make my own stock, for example, when I can get some that's readymade and I've got better things to be getting on with. Unless Gordon wants to bring some home for me from his restaurant...

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  1. I am a 44 yr old mother/homemaker I love to cook but hate to bake. I like not having to use recipes. I dont use measurements I go by taste. But for all of the working mothers who dont feel you have the time to cook try using a crock pot put it together in the morning turn it on low and go and when you get home there you go a nicely cooked meal. with little to do. I have found that anything you cook in the oven roasts, chicken, sauasage liver or whatever you can put together in the crock pot. My children love my shredded italian beef sandwiches, my sausage and potatoes with french onion soup,potatoe soup with amish noodles, chicken noodle soup with croutons. There are alot of recipes you can try it saves time for people who have very little time.
    Posted by holly on 20/09/2009 06:26:49
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  2. Bravo Monsieur I am from Montreal I think that food and life have to be full of healty pleasure ,cooking can be so much fun and sometime it ART, I do hope that the Lady from England stop using all that frozen food because went I visit the family of my husband I am starving no taste no colors I don't no wath happening...depressing so if they go back to the kitchen maybe the man will also get involve Bonne chance Big hug huguette Fleury
    Posted by Huguette Fleury on 07/08/2009 01:54:24
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  3. How can we get copies of his segments showing women how to cook and the recipies he gave them?
    Posted by Debi Munck on 18/06/2009 05:54:32
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  4. Wonder how many quarters of men under 35 cook... wouldnt mind a show to help them finally GET IN THE KITCHEN. Yeah, getting over the culture of gender roles and oppression seemed like a very bad idea... backlash, anyone?
    Posted by Juls on 30/04/2009 22:16:27
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  5. Thank you Gordon, now my wife doesn't fall down the stairs as often. You have truly made my family a better one.
    Posted by Dobbs on 30/04/2009 20:08:30
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  6. I'm back in the kitchen Gordon, thank you from myself and my happy little family.
    Posted by emerick on 10/02/2009 19:11:04
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  7. I am a married 24 year old mother of one and I've been cooking at home since I was 12. About then my mother stopped cooking and figure we could make our own food if we were hungry. I think this campaign is a great idea because cooking has been lost on my generation. My mother didn't teach me to cook and it wasn't a class offered in school. Most everything I know about cooking comes from Food Network, other cooking shows, or experience. Just want to say thank you to Mr. Ramsey for starting this campaign. Hopefully women in the US will catch on to this as well.
    Posted by klynn on 06/02/2009 22:46:34
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  8. I'm a 47 year old single woman (always been single) and I think the disappearance of cooking skills in American women is terrible. I don't even think they offer ANY Home Ec education in the schools anymore. I firmly believe BOTH men and women should learn to cook. Had my younger brother not been able to do some cooking when he first married they would have starved. His bride was the youngest of FOUR sisters, all taught their role in life was to marry and have babies, but mama dear NEVER taught them to cook. That was criminal in my opinion. Women are KILLING our kids with these prepackaged boxed, frozen, canned, bottled and packaged foods their stuffing in the faces of their families these days. They're eating more chemicals than they are real food. Sure, a little convenience is fine at times but when did it become wrong to cook. In the long run it's costing American families BILLIONS in their grocery bills buying this stuff. If women would get organized they could actually cook homemade meals through the weeks JUST AS FAST as the prepackaged stuff. My mother worked full time my entire childhood and she had a hot cooked dinner on the table usually within 30-45 minutes every night. She taught me well and also taught my brother how to cook some. Men need this skill just as much as women. It's all in the prep and the planning ahead. AND, we're not even getting into the topic of freezing and canning here and that lost art. So....I firmly agree with Gordon and agree that both countries need to start making a much bigger effort to bring back this lost art.
    Posted by basketpam on 24/01/2009 19:10:55
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  9. The F word has just been aired in Mexico. I really enjoy the show and enjoy cooking. I do all de cooking at my home because I think is better tasting, healthier and less fattening, BUT IT IS A VERY HARD WORK. It is not only the cooking itself, but going shopping for fresh ingredients, planning menus, and cleaning; it is a full-time professional job, and unfortunately at home it doesn't get paid or really apprecciated. Modern women have more busy schedules to attend to do all this. If you are ever interested in Mexican food I can show you around very good places to lunch or share recipes.
    Posted by gaby on 14/01/2009 01:17:41
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  10. I just happened to catch this show on BBC America. I wss about to flip the channel when I heard Gordon mention the getting women back in the kitchen. I had to keep watching to see exactly what he meant! Well, the F Word is on my DVR now, lol. My mother got cancer when I was very young and she passed on when I was 11. My father didn't know how to cook so we were both sunk. I never was taught how to cook. My hubby was however, but with his schedule he is not generally here for dinner. I can't even think of things to make for lunch let alone dinner! I am just kitchen phobic. There is something about it that makes me hyperventalate and if there are more than a couple of ingredients I just give up. I have tried so many things and now we pretty much either eat premade foods or we eat out. I am overweight, my older son is getting there and I know I am not teaching them good eating habits, but I don't know how to eat right so how am I supposed to teach them!!?? So... I just wanted to say 'THANK YOU' Mr. Ramsay!!!! I will be diligently watching your show to pick up any tips! I think what you are doing is phenominal! And what is really great is that no one in America would have had the balls to get on national television and say 'let's get women back into the kitchen' because in our horribly politically correct society, it would have never made it past the censors even if it wasn't meant badly, lol. I hope to see a show (hopefully you haven't done it already and I missed it) where you show a kitchen phobic mom of three how to shop, prepare and cook for the family while working around two kids sports activities and school. That would be a life saver!
    Posted by Angie from US on 19/12/2008 05:38:06
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  11. Love the f word here in Canada, and love the campaign to get woman back in the kitchen although I do think being able to spend time in the kitchen is a very hard thing for most working moms as they are usually doing a million other tasks and as i always say men really only have one hand and do ot usually multitask very well. Your programme is funny and very interesting with a wide variety of information that is educational and inspiring. Thanks Gordon Ramsey for making t.v worth watching. Kim
    Posted by norald on 30/10/2008 02:12:26
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