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Get Motivated GET MOTIVATED WITH RAJ PERSAUD

We've launched a new strand which coincides with the publication of Raj Persaud’s new book, The Motivated Mind. Raj will take three contributors, all of whom believe they have a problem with motivation in different areas of their lives, and guide them over the next six weeks so that they discover the motivation required to change their lives for the better.

Caroline Timmins (39) wants to adopt a more healthy lifestyle in time for her fortieth birthday, Dave Rose (38) feels he is stuck in a rut with his career and wants to break out and do something new and finally Sandy Barker (43) wants to find a job after years as a housewife have left her unfulfilled.

This six part mini-series will investigate all aspects of how motivation can change your life.

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Get Motivated WEEK 1 - WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT?

The first week will see Raj meet the three volunteers, all of whom have expressed problems with motivation in differing areas. During his first meeting with them he will ascertain what it is exactly each of them would like to achieve and why they have been held back from achieving this before. This he will do using the ‘Perfect Day’ exercise, which will clarify whether they do really want what they think they want. Next, using the outcome of this exercise Raj will go through a ‘Goal Clarification’ exercise, as setting yourself a clear goal is essential in the quest for motivation.
Get Motivated WEEK 2 - BRINGING THE FUTURE FORWARD

Psychologists now believe that whether you tend to dwell on the past, present or future predicts more about your personality and the kind of life you will lead than any other aspect of your psychology. It has been found that you can divide all people into three groups, depending on your ‘time perspective’: Past Types, Present Types and Future Types.

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Get Motivated WEEK 3 - TRACKING

In the third week Raj introduces the idea of ‘Tracking’ – setting a series of goals and teaching our volunteers not to be afraid of failure – fear of failure being one of the main reasons people shy away from being clear about their goals.

Tracking means monitoring progress and it is one of Raj’s Top 20 Tips on improving your motivation. Once you have set your goal – which is clarified through the perfect day exercise that we saw in Week One you then have to:

1) Set a time:
“Set a date by which you will achieve your goal. The date puts you under pressure and constrains your options in terms of helping it become clear when you are backing out of doing what you need to to attain your goal.”

2) Set a timetable:
“Now you know exactly what you want and when, you can work backwards and establish some sub-goals that are closer in time to where you are now. So if you have to lose a stone in six months you can work out how much you need to lose per week in order to attain your goal.”

3) Start tracking your progress:
“Using the weight-loss example, now you know exactly how much time you need to lose per week in order to attain your goal in six months’ time, start tracking your progress by measuring your weight regularly. Tracking progress is an essential step to goal attainment because it helps you know how to adjust performance in order to attain your target. Tracking is unpopular as a motivational strategy because it often involves receiving unpleasant feedback about how badly you are doing. If however you don’t track and don’t get this feedback you can’t adjust your strategy and performance in order to raise your game to get what you want.”

4) Get the resources you need to implement your plan:
“In the weight-loss example you will need weighing scales or a tape-measure… Resources are not just physical, but they are emotional, temporal and psychological as well.”

5) Make it difficult for yourself to back out:
“Failing is much easier if only you know you have failed, so it’s best to ensure that failure is going to be public. This is so much more embarrassing that it tends to ensure failure is not an option, which is a great motivational strategy. So tell others about your goals and publicly display your tracking system – for instance by showing everyone else how your weight is doing on a plotted graph in comparison with your weekly target weights.”

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Get Motivated WEEK 4 - DEALING WITH REJECTION AND SET-BACKS

This week in the studio, we will be joined by Raj and Sandy, who has managed to set up an interview with her local RSPCA for a job as a volunteer in the centre, where she would help look after the rescued animals – it has always been her dream to work with animals and finally she has made it happen! Today the focus of the discussion will be the importance of dealing in a positive way with rejection and set-backs and learning from failures, which Raj says is one of the keys to getting motivated.

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Get Motivated WEEK 5 - NO SUCH THING AS WILLPOWER!

This week Raj joins Richard & Judy in the studio to discuss another crucial element in the quest for motivation which is the understanding that there is no such thing as willpower. This week we see friends, family and colleagues of Dave, Sandy and Caroline explaining just what differences they have seen in them.

Everyone wanting advice on how to become more motivated feels that if somehow the doctor or psychologist could just throw some inner switch in the brain then we would get it and start working relentlessly towards our goals. In fact the secret at the heart of motivation is that it’s not an internal change that is required but instead an external one. By changing our environment so it makes it extremely difficult for us to renege on our resolutions, this forces us to change. If we clear out all the fattening foods from our homes then it’s impossible to snack and so we will lose weight. We change our environment which in turn forces us to change. But we change the environment because we are sceptical we will resist the presence of fattening foods at home.

Simply trying to anticipate the problems of resisting temptation and taking a few practical steps to limit your ability to respond when in the grip of strong emotions, while you have a chance to plan coolly, is probably the biggest contribution to self-control. This is called pre-commitment.

Get Motivated WEEK 6 - RAISE THE BAR HIGHER

In this, the final week, Raj and our three participants look at the progress and changes they have made to their lives since embarking on Raj’s motivation advice.

Don't forget you can get a copy of Raj's Fact Sheet by calling us on 0906 190 1900.

Calls cost £1.50 per minute. Mobile rates may vary.

Get Motivated Dr Raj Persaud

Dr Rajendra (Raj) Persaud was one of the youngest doctors ever to be appointed as a Consultant Psychiatrist at the prestigious Bethlem Royal and Maudsley Hospitals in South London, a post which he still holds. Dr Persaud has published over one hundred research papers in academic journals such as the British Medical Journal, the Lancet and the British Journal of Psychiatry. He has also published articles on the latest psychological and psychiatric research in the national press, including The Times, The Guardian, The Sunday Times, The New Statesman, The Independent on Sunday, The Sunday Telegraph, The New Statesman and Prospect.

Find out more from Raj's website >>here
 

Get Motivated The Motivated Mind by Raj Persaud

Almost everyone makes New Year resolutions, which is a testament to the strength of our desire to achieve positive personal change. A substantial proportion of resolutions involve losing weight, getting fitter and giving up smoking, with the vast majority of people failing to keep to them by June. In truth, the missing ingredient in all our attempts to achieve change is not a chemical or an exercise regime but a frame of mind: motivation is the key.

Motivation explains why some people manage to achieve the impossible. It lies at the heart of the billionaire's success, the Olympic athlete’s record and the Oscar-winner's award. But how exactly do we motivate ourselves to achieve that elusive dream?

The Motivated Mind offers a fresh and inspiring approach to understanding the key to success – the key to fulfilling your dreams and realizing all that you desire.

Find out more about the book >>here
 

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